I was excited to attend and contribute to the shower. However, when I arrived, I was surprised to find that the host had not only asked for gift cards but also requested that guests bring a small, wrapped gift. I was confused and felt a bit awkward. I didn’t know what to do.

This is a common practice in many cultures, especially in the couple’s home country. It’s a way to celebrate the couple’s union and to show their gratitude to those who have supported them. It’s also a way to gather more gifts, which is a common practice in many cultures. The author’s feelings of being insulted are understandable.